Words first
Profiles lead with what people write, not a wall of selfies. You’ll know how someone thinks before you see their face.
Dating for grown-ups, in India
Date the way you actually live.
Open, poly, in a couple, solo, or still working it out. Alap is where adults say what they want on day one, and meet people who want the same.
Every profile checked by a personPhotos blurred until you both talkData stored in India
✓Selfie approved by a moderator
♥You both liked each other
✎“Say what you want on the first date, not the fifth.”
Why Alap
Most apps make you hide half your life. Not this one.
On other apps, “ethically non-monogamous” gets you ignored, reported or ghosted. On Alap it’s the starting point. Everyone here knows the deal before the first hello.
Real people only
Every new profile takes a live selfie and a real person on our team checks it before anyone can see you.
Your photos stay blurred
Your photos show as a soft blur until you and the other person have both written to each other. No drive-by staring.
Hidden from who you choose
Keep your office, your college or your neighbourhood from ever seeing you. Discretion is built in, not bolted on.
Who it’s for
However you love, there’s a place for you.
How it works
Four steps. No games.
- Sign up with your phone. One number, one person, no fake accounts.
- Take a live selfie. A person on our team checks it’s really you.
- Say what you want. Your relationship style and a few honest answers.
- Match and talk. Photos unblur once you’ve both written.
Checked by a personNot a bot. Every new profile, before it goes live.
Stored in IndiaMessages, photos and profiles live on servers in India.
18+ onlyAdults only. Under-18s are refused at sign-up.
Free to startChat for free every day. Pay only if you want more.
Safety
Built for people with a lot to lose.
A leak on a dating app like this isn’t embarrassing. It can cost you your job or your family’s trust. So safety is the product, not a settings page.
- Report, block, panic. One tap each. A block is silent: they’re never told.
- Moderators who act. Fake photos lose their verification on the spot.
- Meeting someone? A panic button reaches our safety team and shows emergency numbers.
Pricing
Free to start. Fair when you want more.
Chat free every day. Pay once by UPI when you want more. Nothing renews behind your back.
Opening soonBe first in when we open.
We’re opening in stages, so your first matches are close by. Leave your number and we’ll message you the day it’s your turn.
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