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For couples

Two of you. One honest profile.

Most apps pretend couples don’t exist, or let one person run a “couple” account nobody can check. On Alap, both of you are really there.

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How couple profiles work

Both of you in. Both of you heard.

One of you sets up the profile

Choose “partnered, we date together” when you sign up, and pass the live selfie check like everyone else.

Invite your partner to co-sign

Your partner joins with their own phone number and their own selfie check, then confirms the link. Until they do, the couple profile stays hidden.

Both of you write

Each of you answers prompts in your own words, so people get to know you both, not one voice speaking for two.

Either of you can step back

If one partner revokes the link, the couple profile comes down. Nobody stays on show without agreeing to it.

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Dating separately?

Each of you can have your own profile.

If you each date on your own, choose “partnered, we date separately”. You’ll each have your own profile, and your style is clear to everyone from the start.

  • Your partner knows. Everyone who says they’re partnered confirms their partner is aware. No secret affairs here.
  • Hide from shared circles. Keep your mutual office, college or area from seeing you.
Couple plan

One plan for both of you.